My Perfect Man
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Now, I am not a picky person. But, when it comes down to MEN, I just have a few criteria that I would prefer.
- Witty/Funny/Clever. If he can make me laugh, I will love him forever. However, do not confuse this with TRYING to be funny. He must be genuinely funny...his actions have to make me laugh. Carefree hilarity is the BEST. If he's not funny even the slightest bit, then he's definitely not the man for me.
- Shoes. Good shoes. Not gross chunky running shoes. I don't care if he looks like he's been living in a gutter. As long as he has good shoes, he's cool in my book. They don't even have to be clean. A little dirt is good for everyone. That's not asking so much, right?
- Dark hair (: I am not so into blondes to tell you the truth. Unless it's dark dark blonde..almost brown. Then I can bear it. But blondes are just so... stereotypical hunkman. and I don't like typical.
- Smile. If he has an infectious smile, I will SWOOOOON. I don't mean Crest White Strips Commercial smile, but a good fun-loving smile. That also doesn't mean plaque-infested teeth that are green. I will probably shun you if you have green teeth. If his smile lights up the room, he will light up my life.
- Laid back. I want a man who can just hang out with me without going out somewhere exciting. My company should just be enough. And uptight-ness is not attractive.
- Fun & Playful. We must be able to have fun anywhere we go.
- EYESEYESEYES! Not what they look like, but... how you use your eyes? I don't like when people can't make eye contact with you.
- Healthy. If he likes to put crap in his body, I'm not down with that. The occasional fast food isn't bad but if you're killing yourself with GREASY foods, then that's bad. Everything in moderation.
- Intelligent & Thoughtful. If I can have an enjoyable and intelligent conversation with him then that's a big plus.
- Open. He has to be open to new things and willing to try anything.
- Spontaneous. Boring is boring. No boring in my life. Be spontaneous with me!
- Romantic. Not like romantic restaurants...unconventional romantic if that makes sense.
- Taller than me! I'm tall-ish. Taller than 5'7 isn't hard for most guys. Preferably a couple inches taller though. Think at least 5'10.
- Complex. I don't want to be able to know everything about him right off the bat.
- Tolerant. This doesn't mean "Hey. Look a gay person. I'm not going to prosecute them, but I don't agree with their lifestyle." This means "Everyone is equal. Gay, straight, black, hispanic, asian, white. It doesn't matter." That is one of my many philosophies in life and if he shares this philosophy, that would be nice.
- Quirky. He has to have his own little quirks that I can't even dream up.
My perfect man will be his own person. Not a duplicate of me in male form & not like one in the movies.
So that is a REALLY long list. I'm definitely not expecting him to have every single one of those qualities or whatnot. Those are just things that are attractive in the eyes of Joanna Chiang and any one of those qualities would be great.
So..PERFECT MAN? COME FIND ME!
(cheeeeesyy^^^)
joanna (:

